For me, it was growing up poor on a small farm in rural northern Wisconsin—and being part of 4-H. Belonging to the Bluebell Builders 4-H Club had a profound and lasting impact on who I am today.

Each meeting began with two pledges: the Pledge of Allegiance and the 4-H Pledge. I can still hear the rhythm of those powerful words:

• I pledge my Head to clearer thinking
• I pledge my Heart to greater loyalty
• I pledge my Hands to larger service
• I pledge my Health to better living for my club, my community, my country, and my world

At the time, it felt like a ritual. Looking back, I realize it was a blueprint. Those words helped shape my values—clear thinking, loyalty, service, and healthy living. They weren’t just ideals. They became guideposts.

4-H gave me more than skills—it gave me confidence. I learned to sew. I kept project financial accounting records. I gave cooking and sewing demonstrations. I grew vegetables and proudly showed them at the county fair. I entered my horse in competitions. I even got my Social Security number so I could work at the fair’s hamburger stand!

But more than anything, I learned how to be a leader—and how to serve.
The 4-H pledge has echoed through every stage of my life. It shaped my sense of purpose, my work ethic, and my desire to give back.

We all have influences that mold us—sometimes quietly, sometimes profoundly. For me, 4-H was one of the most defining.

What clubs or organizations shaped you? What early experiences helped form the values you carry today? I’d love to hear.